I knew what I wanted.  I was very clear and direct with my prayer. “God, I’m ready to start dating to find my wife.”  While this prayer might not seem like big deal to someone else, it was HUGE for me. At that point in my life, I was trying to dig myself out of a hole. I was struggling with credit card debt and at the beginning of what would be a 140 pound weightloss journey.  I was also in transition, as I had to make one of the hardest decisions in my life – to move out of my two-bedroom bachelor pad andRead More →

Where is the love? 1st Corithians 13:4-8 clearly explains what LOVE is: “Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud.  It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth.  It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails.” Based on my reading of that scripture, it is clear to me that love is an action word.  Love requires you to demonstrate by your actions how you feel.  If you really love something or someone,Read More →

My wife and I decided that we wanted to do a blog about healthy relationships, marriage, family and the importance of living a God-centered life. Now, although we do not proclaim to be “experts” in this area, God has specifically blessed us with wisdom, knowledge, and understanding about relationships that we believe will be a blessing to someone else.  And I, being the husband and head of our household, decided to write the first introductory blog. (I think that’s okay, right babe? #HappyWifeHappyLife) As of today, my wife and I have been married for 9 months and 5 days, and I can honestly say everyday gets sweeter thanRead More →